Society "WE, are the biggest problem for disabled and to their parents.

A person with disability and their parents or caregivers fight the biggest and the toughest battle not because of

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The obstacles the disability gives, but because of the obstacles we, the so called society give them. Sadly yes! Society "WE", are the biggest problem for disabled and to and to their parents. Eventually, the isolation from the society become the easiest option for them. 

Let's have a look on how. Starting from the birth till their adult life see how "Society "WE", are the biggest problem for disabled". 

1ST BATTLE: (immediately after birth)

Immediately after the birth, doctor diagnose the baby with disability (of any sort), doctor come to the baby's happy and excited parents and instead of saying, "congratulations for your baby" and then guide further about the situation, he comes and say, "SORRY! Your child does have whatever disability". 😞😞

The happy and excited parents start seems worry, their gratitude towards the GOD turns into complain and then....then the misguidance leads their worry towards negative thoughts. Like, 

• My child is abnormal, he/she could not live a normal life.
• No future of my child
• My child's growth does not have any way, and so on. 

The real feeling can only be express by the victims.

And nobody tell them that "Their way of growth could be different but, stages of growth is same as normal".

2ND BATTLE: (when the parents of disabled are sitting with us, the "SOCIETY")

Behavior we people show vs. the behavior they really need from us:

The behavior which we named as "SYMPATHY” may be become the reason of increasing their stress, decreasing their motivation and lower down their self-esteem. Just think, when we see such child what are our sentences??

• "OH! your child is abnormal😨"
• "Oh, he is an exam from God for you, be brave☺️", and etc. etc.

But....what they actually need from us is only and only an "ACCEPTANCE". They already know much about their child, they don't need any reminder. They just need people who embrace their child as we do for any other child, who embrace their child's moves without any question & answer, just an EMBRACEMENT and an ACCEPTANCE. 

3RD BATTLE: (when the child, due to his disability rejected by his peers)

Unfortunately because of our own blackness and weaknesses we forget to teach our own children that how to behave when you meet your disabled peer.

 There are many reasons behind this...may be our own reaction towards that child or our schools who never allowed that child to get enter in their schools because he/she is DISABLED.

Eventually, during the period which is the period of building self-esteem of any child, his/her gets destroyed before building.